Was having this conversation with my friend today over whether can ex lovers ever become close friends after that. We look over at the live example we had in the office and the clear cut conclusion was NO hahaha. Initially the both of them were kindda like the inspiration for me in the sense that if things ended on amicable terms, it is still possible to go back to what things were. Unfortunately for the both of them, things came downhill pretty fast and I sincerely pray from the bottom of my heart that the day will never come if i were to be assigned to a team with the both of them in it. 

For me I really once thought that I can be such a person. A person that can still remain a close friend to someone that i was in a relationship with. I guess I was so wrong about myself. The conclusion I get is that it might be possible. Possible if in the near future one does not see the other or hear any news about him/her. What got me into it was when my friend mentioned that its quite upsetting that ex lovers can never go back to being good friends again if they were so from the beginning. Without thinking, i told my friend that perhaps all this while it was only her that was thinking this way about being upset. The other party might not even be bothered about it and have simply just moved on with his life. It might just had been her own wishful thinking to think of it this way. 

I used to think that I was an unfeeling person. But no, Im in fact more feeling than normal people. So much so that i had change from an INTP to an INFP person. Too much obstinacy, too much negativity.......... If time were to turn back, i think i would have handled things more differently. 

"Lets not be friends for a near future". 

Love is not a bubble. I had lived in one a long time back. That is not love..... Its just that I didnt knew what was love.